After her bridesmaid caused a scene, this Bride photoshopped her out of the pictures


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After her bridesmaid caused a scene, this Bride photoshopped her out of the pictures

While the focus of any wedding should be on the bride and the groom sometimes the wedding party itself will feature pretty heavily, especially in the wedding photos. For one bride she found herself in a situation she never thought she would be in. After a lot of thought, she believed she had settled on the perfect bridesmaids who would surround her with love, joy, and most importantly support in both the lead-up to the wedding and on the day itself. As planning for the bridal shower, ceremony, and reception got underway it became apparent that one bridesmaid was not quite as committed as the others. This led to a very hard decision.

The Guest List


Anyone who has ever been involved with planning a wedding knows how many details need to be worked out and that everything has to be run like a well-oiled machine. You want to make sure that everyone who is important to you is at the ceremony or the reception which means fine-tuning the guest list.
The Guest List

Sometimes there is a family member who gets invited that does not exactly know how to behave as they should which can lead to some drama but what if that person is actually a member of the bridal party itself?
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The Wedding Party


For one bride she thought that she had worked out all the details of her wedding. The invitations had been sent, her bridesmaids asked if they would do her the honor of standing at the altar with her on the big day, and the groomsmen as well.

It seemed like everything was going off without a hitch. Then her family decided to intervene and say that a certain someone should be included as a bridesmaid. The bride accepted that this woman would make her family happy and she figured what could go wrong? It was just another bridesmaid who would be there to help on the big day.
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Trouble In Paradise


Once this new bridesmaid was added into the mix and began to help out with all of the little things that makes a wedding great problems began to occur. The bride was worried that this was not a very good start to what should be a joyous occasion.
Trouble In Paradise

She kept waiting for the new bridesmaid to act the way one should but little things started to happen that made her nervous. What would the big day bring? Would this bridesmaid be dependable or would she try and create some kind of chaos which would ruin the big day? Only time would tell.
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The Big Day


When the big day finally arrived, it was clear that this bridesmaid had zero interest in performing any bridesmaid duties and was only there to cause trouble. All this bridesmaid wanted was to cause mayhem and attempt to make this the worst day of the bride’s life instead of the best.

To make matters worse she decided to try and catch the eye of the bride’s new husband which was totally inappropriate. The bride was upset that she had not listened to her gut when it had said that another bridesmaid was a bad idea because of course, it was right.
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A Positive Spin


There was no reason that this bride needed to remember how terrible that bridesmaid had been. She did not want the woman to be immortalized in her wedding photos which led to a very radical decision. All the bride needed to do was erase this awful bridesmaid from her photos and her life and it would be like it had never happened.

She engaged the services of a graphic designer who was very good with photoshop and implored them to simply erase this bridesmaid from every wedding photo she was in. It would take a lot of work but in the end, it would be worth it.
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Wedding Planning


After the bride made the decision to simply erase this poor choice from her life, she began to ruminate on just how this had all gone so wrong. It came down to a couple of things, mainly to do with the wedding planning process itself.
Wedding Planning

Planning a wedding is no easy feat, especially if it is for hundreds of people. You have to think about what to feed them, where to hold the reception, the color palette, the types of floral arrangements and the list goes on and on.
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Family Input


No wedding is complete without the friends and family both as guests and as valued members in the decision-making process. Parents always want to make sure that certain family members are included as they see this as a time to show off their child on their big day.

Keeping family happy can be very stressful for the bride and groom as they want the day of their dreams but they also don’t want to upset anybody in the process.
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The Bridesmaids


As we know by now the bridesmaids had been chosen from both friends and family to keep everyone happy. However, the bride’s family felt that one person had really been overlooked. This would be the nefarious bridesmaid who seemed bent on destroying the big day.

This new addition was a real surprise because the bride and her were not close. She thought the woman would simply thank her for the offer and then decline. Unfortunately, she did not.
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An Uninterested Bridesmaid


After saying ‘Yes’ to being a bridesmaid the woman seemed to drop out of the wedding altogether. When the bride would call her and ask her if she wanted to be involved with certain aspects of the planning she would simply say ‘no.’
An Uninterested Bridesmaid

All this bridesmaid wanted to do was show up on the big day, have a free meal, wear a nice dress, and possibly meet a groomsman. The bride was extremely upset when she realized that this bridesmaid just wanted a free pass to the wedding.
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Attendance Is Not Mandatory


As the day of the wedding drew closer and the bridal shower and the bachelorette party were planned by the other bridesmaids, the bride hoped that this bridesmaid might finally make some effort. Sadly, she did not even bother showing up for these pre-wedding festivities.
Attendance Is Not Mandatory

All she ever said was ‘no.’ Not even a ‘no, thank you.’ There was a chat for all of the bridesmaids and the maid of honor to coordinate wedding activities which this terrible bridesmaid even muted and then deleted herself from.
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The Day Of The Wedding


The big day finally came and all of the bridesmaids gather around the bride to help her with her dress, make-up, shoes, and any other little details. This was the kind of event they all wanted to remember and take part in, with the exception of the other bridesmaid.

She was nowhere to be found. It turned out that she wanted nothing to do with preparing the bride and simply stayed at home to make sure she looked amazing for the big day.
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Going Stag


When it was time to drive over to the venue for the ceremony the bridesmaid in question had still failed to show up. The bride became concerned, where could she be? After a covert call came in, the bride heard that the bridesmaid was already at the ceremony.
Going Stag

She had decided to bypass seeing the bride before the ceremony and had driven herself over to be with the other guests. At this point, the bride became very offended.
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A Dark Cloud


As the ceremony got underway and the bridesmaids walked down the aisle and lined up alongside the altar the bride decided to put all of her unhappiness behind her. She was about to marry the man of her dreams, she looked fabulous and nothing was going to get her down.
A Dark Cloud

That is until she looked over to the side and saw the awful bridesmaid who appeared to have a dark cloud hanging over her head. Then the bride noticed something even worse.
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A Flirty Look


Every time the bridesmaid glanced at the bride she got a surly look on her face but when she turned her gaze on the groom it all became clear. She seemed to have a crush on him or perhaps some unrequited love. She gazed at him adoringly and seemed to be imploring him to look at her.
A Flirty Look

He only had eyes for his almost wife but the bride could not help but notice that look. She was appalled. This was why the bridesmaid had been so terrible during the lead-up to her big day.
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The Wedding Reception


After the bride and groom said their “I dos” the rest of the bridal party began to filter down the aisle on their way to the reception halls doors. This would be the first time the two of them stepped out as husband and wife and everyone wanted to throw rose petals over them to celebrate.
The Wedding Reception

Not the bridesmaid though. Instead, she began bad-mouthing the bride to guests and verbally harassing them when they stood up to her. The bride was aghast when she heard this.
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Goodbye


As soon as the ceremony and reception came to an end the bridesmaid left without a word. She had come, had her free meal, enjoyed the open bar, been downright rude to guests and then decided to up and leave.

Her last parting remark was a long goodbye to the bride’s husband while the bride was off chatting with her other guests. She could not believe that the bridesmaid had acted this way and wanted to know why.
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An Olive Branch


The bride was understandably upset by this whole ordeal but she still wanted to give the bridesmaid the benefit of the doubt. Maybe there was a good reason for this supposedly uncalled for behavior.

In an attempt to salvage their relationship, she messaged the bridesmaid and asked her if she could explain the situation and why she seemed to be so upset with her. When the bridesmaid responded to the message the bride was floored.
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The Response


The bride saw that the message had been read and waited for the reply. It came quickly and what the bridesmaid had to say for herself was astounding. She quickly claimed that the bride had not made any of the bridesmaids feel welcome and that she herself was not invited to enjoy any of the fun activities that the other bridesmaids had planned.
The Response

This was completely untrue and the parting remark from the bridesmaid was that she planned to pretend that this wedding did not take place.
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Cutting Her Out


After reading what the bridesmaid had to say for herself the bride made an executive decision. They could both pretend that certain aspects of the wedding had never happened. For the bride, it would be that that so-called friend had never been one of her bridesmaids.

She would cut her out of her life and her wedding photos. It is impossible to erase memories but modern technology has made erasing people from photos very easy.
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The World Responds


During this whole ordeal, the bride had been posting on Facebook about what she was going through. Eventually, this story filtered into a group called “Wedding Shaming.” This group focuses on people who have had bad experiences and decided to call out the guilty party in a very public manner.

The members of this group were very vocal about what had happened but the underlying theme was a lesson the bride had had to learn.
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Be Careful Who You Choose


This bride had been wary from the start when her family said this bridesmaid should be included. She knew it was not a good idea as they did not mesh well with the other bridesmaids but she did it to keep them happy.
Be Careful Who You Choose

The lesson learned here is that you should only ever do what is right for you, not your friends or family when it comes to your big day. It was a hard lesson to swallow but this bride did.
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Photoshop Skills


Some of the photos were shared in the group to show off just how good the graphic designer had been. Overall, the consensus was that you should be careful with who you invite to your wedding and if you do need to cut a guest out of pictures than the person who did this bride’s photos should be getting a lot of business.

At the end of the day, this wedding should be remembered fondly as this bride did end up with the person of her dreams.
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Happily Ever After


While this bride and bridesmaid might no longer be friends there is something positive that has come out of all of this. The bride and groom are closer than ever as they had to support each other through this difficult time on what was not supposed to be a stressful day.

Now the two of them can start their new life together with a clean slate, beautiful wedding pictures featuring only their close friends and family, and the love they have for each other.
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